Laughter - The Best Medicine

Haha haha haha !!! Come on now stop showing your Colgate teeth. How much do you really have to laugh; MY GOD... THAT'S ENOUGH !!! This is what I keep hearing when someone tries to laugh their hearts out these days. It sounds familiar, doesn't it?

In our tremendously active schedules today we hardly get the real hours of enjoyment and then what if someone tells you what I mentioned above ? Feel like bashing him/her, yeah? I don't know about you, but I do. They say - Laughter is the Best Medicine and then also try to contradict. Tuff to accept.

There are a few friends who keep saying, "tu kitna hasti hai yaar", "aur koi kaam nahi, hasti rehti hai". To all of them I wanted to say and rest of you I wanted to share my little thought about laughter or maybe my logic about it. 

We really get those few minutes or hours of happiness when we truly laugh out loud, so why miss it? Just grab the opportunity. Its rare, really rare. We face sad moments often, so very often but how many times do we get the chance to express our happiness? We can't even be the real us with anyone and everyone right? Those people are few, those moments are rare when we live to the fullest and enjoy each moment. Do not miss those moments of laughing out loud folks !!! Let people talk, gossip and utter purely nonsensical words about you; but you do not stop your laughter at any cost.

A friend of mine once told me, "Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one." This is so damn true and real. So let us stop bothering about what people talk and start living and laughing our way.

We all have sad and happy moments, memories and maddenned situations in our lives. It all passes by. How boring and irksome our life's would have been if we sat with all those burdens on our heads. Just imagine for yourselves, the times when you cry and need somebody the most people are rarely around you. But when you keep smiling and laughing and giggling and joking people really want to be around you. Isn't it really ironic if we think deep, that we do not really have our loved ones when we need them and vice - versa. 

So I come back to that same Question of mine, Why do we really miss that one chance of laughter only because people think we look mad that way? Uhh !!! or is it cause they are not capable enough of laughing out loud even midst all those unseen loads behind their backs ? They know it best. Well for all of us, let the reason be X Y Z we won't miss all those moments which we could cherish later in life just by LOL !!!

WE ALL FAIL HERE !!!

They say you have changed. But they cannot see who has changed me. They say you were not this before; do they even have mirrors to see through themselves?  Accusing someone of being a different personality is easy but accepting the harsh reality behind that, is what lacks in all of us.  Is CHANGE not the only thing PERMANENT? Does change not happen for the good? Then why not accept change? Why do we fear it? Why?

Relationships break just because people have changed. Considering the facts behind that change is very difficult. Not everyone has the vigor to accept the NEW YOU. Be it any relationship, Change is not welcomed by all and so we don’t have those changed people in our lives anymore. If at all we would have made a little effort to tolerate that change our near and dear ones wouldn’t have vanished from our lives; give it a thought and you’ll know.

How self centered can we really be to misunderstand the other person? The other person may not be an XYZ but the closest one you had once upon a time. One miscommunication, one assumption, one wrong thought and its all gone forever. Is this all really worth it?  Can we not give in a little bit of our EGOs our full minds and openly our Heads and Hearts to someone so close? Receiving is the key guys. Learning to receive is the most difficult part for us when we all think of ourselves as Einsteins and Newtons. But even they would have heard suggestions and recommendations from hundreds of people and then got to their goals. Then why can’t we surrender to JUST HEAR IT OUT. Only listening to the other side is not enough; absorbing, understanding and then trying to digest is the key.

I don’t know how many of you have lost their near and dear ones due to misunderstanding, but guys it’s not worth it. So get up, go and talk your heart out. Remember that talking it out is really easy but listening to the talking person will help you maintain relations.

GOODLUCK !!!