WE ALL FAIL HERE !!!

They say you have changed. But they cannot see who has changed me. They say you were not this before; do they even have mirrors to see through themselves?  Accusing someone of being a different personality is easy but accepting the harsh reality behind that, is what lacks in all of us.  Is CHANGE not the only thing PERMANENT? Does change not happen for the good? Then why not accept change? Why do we fear it? Why?

Relationships break just because people have changed. Considering the facts behind that change is very difficult. Not everyone has the vigor to accept the NEW YOU. Be it any relationship, Change is not welcomed by all and so we don’t have those changed people in our lives anymore. If at all we would have made a little effort to tolerate that change our near and dear ones wouldn’t have vanished from our lives; give it a thought and you’ll know.

How self centered can we really be to misunderstand the other person? The other person may not be an XYZ but the closest one you had once upon a time. One miscommunication, one assumption, one wrong thought and its all gone forever. Is this all really worth it?  Can we not give in a little bit of our EGOs our full minds and openly our Heads and Hearts to someone so close? Receiving is the key guys. Learning to receive is the most difficult part for us when we all think of ourselves as Einsteins and Newtons. But even they would have heard suggestions and recommendations from hundreds of people and then got to their goals. Then why can’t we surrender to JUST HEAR IT OUT. Only listening to the other side is not enough; absorbing, understanding and then trying to digest is the key.

I don’t know how many of you have lost their near and dear ones due to misunderstanding, but guys it’s not worth it. So get up, go and talk your heart out. Remember that talking it out is really easy but listening to the talking person will help you maintain relations.

GOODLUCK !!!