Little Moments, Monstrous Memories

MEMORIES !!! So positive and fun this word sounds, doesn't it? Lets go a little deeper into future. I sit on a couch with a cup of coffee sipping away the addictive drink and all the sweet moments flash across my eyes refreshing my mind. I live those moments all over again. Beautiful is what I would term those moments as. Those happy moments are the ones we always recollect when we talk of memories. Our mind automatically filters away the bad ones and focuses on the ones in our favor.  It does not mean bad memories do not exist in our lives. Look at our present, most of us will feel nothing is in place, everything is hay - wire, why me? Isn't it? Then where do these bad moments disappear when we sit and ponder about memories is what I always wonder !!! The happy ones are the ones which rule when we sit at leisure and think of them.

There are several little moments which give us tremendous happiness. Even a call from an unexpected old friend, who's face now appears blurred to you makes you feel happy. A little child smiling and waving back at you brings a smile on your face. Spending a few minutes with someone who loves and cares for you makes us feel happy for him/her. The list goes endless....then why do we still keep our problems on the top of our minds and the solutions are dug up deep below? WHY ???

There are so many little events happening that pull you down & then again so many things just happening at the same time that pull you deeper below and then comes the level of saturation when you sometimes feel like hiding within yourself. But then its just a matter of that one little thing happening and there you go, you pull yourself out of that gravity that kept you stuck inside. Its your own determination that brings you out. At the end of the day its you and only you who can help yourself out of all the negativity. Hang on; this write up is heading towards negative and positive thoughts now !!! Or may be everything is all about the way we think. Everything really revolves around optimism and pessimism. 

One thing is for sure, a perfect moment is a proper blend of the RIGHT ingredients, in a RIGHT proportion at the RIGHT time. So folks keep blending those ingredients and it will turn out the best when the RIGHT TIME strikes. We can't keep waiting for the right time and then start blending, you never know the moment might just skip away. So keep doing your bit and make those little moments the monstrous memories of your life...!!!